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    Best bachata dance songs

    According to TikiTaka, this is the best Bachata song.
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    The 4 stages of growth

    The five stages of dancing are: TO ME: This stage is the beginning of your dancing journey. You are new to dancing, and you rely heavily on your teacher to guide you. You don't have a clear idea of your preferences or the dance styles you like. Your learning curve is steep, and you need your...
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    People who are in cliques, what goes on in cliques? Do you like it, why are you in it?

    Chris was talking facts in this thread. I am not in any snobbish group or cliques. I only make friend with like minded people. Dance skill doesn't matter to me.
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    Whom do you like to dance with, but prefer to be asked?

    I assume this is a subject for a follow. Leads don't get asked often. Even a girl that loves dance with me will wait for me to ask her. That's why i am always impressed if a girl ask me for a dance.
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    Do we all have a duty to influence certain dance etiquettes?

    You should only behave yourself, have your own principles. I don't judge people, not my purpose to be at dance floor. I had female friend went home with a guy. I had friends that are not in relationship dance like they are on honeymoon. Lots of **** goes on the floor no matter where you...
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    Dance sneaker recommendations

    It's Sabrosura's fault! :oops: She seduced me. She lured me to the dark side with the multiple orgasm promises.
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    Dance sneaker recommendations

    I am about to buy Feugo white low top sneaker. All my shoes are in red or black. And since i started to dance kizomba, i've been using a pair of white Alexander McQueen leather sneaker.
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    Do you believe anyone can dance...?

    Well, if you don't have legs, or deaf and blind the same time... Maybe you can't. But I danced with a deaf girl before, she followed well. and she could feel the rhythm by watching others.
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    How to reject a dance?

    Thanks a lot Sabrosura, for telling me this now, after I already pissed off 90% of the local followers. I could have used some ladysplaining before that. :wacky:
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    How to reject a dance?

    1. always keep your promise. If you can't do it this time, then run to him for a dance the next time. All leads will respect you. 2. What's up with kizomba long dance sessions? I got smacked in the back of my head by a friend. She's like: dude, this is not salsa or bachata, you dance with a...
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    Looks and Managing Low Confidence

    Not everyone take dancing seriously like you do. Some guys might just want to chill, and get to know women. They like to chat with women more than getting the dance. I know a few guys like that. one of them told me, "I enjoy the dance, you enjoy to learn."
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    Salsa open diary

    I am getting tired of salsa patterns too, could only imagine how the ladies that follow my lead feel. Kizomba is more relaxing for me. Captain salsa has some sensual bachata videos on tiktok are very cringey
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    cuban salsa - tap on 4 and 8

    I tap on 4&8 when I dance bachata at casino. :headphone:
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    Date turned to nightmare salsa scene (help)...

    Here is a tip for you: There are guys that go to social just for dancing. You can easily spot those guys. They will be dancing with one girl then quickly move to another girl when the song is over. They don't chat much. They don't spend time to think which girl to ask for a dance. And you...
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    Date turned to nightmare salsa scene (help)...

    Didn't read the whole thing but I can tell you a relationship is based on the mutual feelings. Just tell him to **** off. If all you are looking for is a hobby, you don't need this douchebag for dancing. You will dance with thousands men in your journey of dancing. There are some guys in the...
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    What is happening to mambo/on2

    I asked every one of them to fill out a survey. :D
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    What is happening to mambo/on2

    I just restarted my kizomba journey. So far, I have not given any woman unforgetable orgasms yet. But I am getting there.
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    How do you make friends and talk to people, including the opposite sex, at parties?

    I don't believe my stories are extreme tho. Noticed that in the stories I personally shared which there were no verbal abuse (curse words, lewd), no physical confrontations, or inappropriate touching. I have seen all happened here on the dance floor.
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