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    Rejection Sensitivity

    I’ve been rejected plenty of times. honestly, I could call myself an expert at it. My advice to leads who feel uncomfortable with rejection is simple: move on and focus on becoming a better dancer. There will always be another girl who’s happy to dance with you, and hopefully you’ll be able to...
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    Origin of Sensual Bachata

    Sensual bachata is originated in China. Here is the proof: https://www.facebook.com/reel/664496723235337
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    Comparison of Swing and Salsa

    West coast swing? I find it very random. I would compare Zouk to Salsa on 2 long before I compare Swing dance with Salsa.
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    Finding your lover is it still possible in 2025?

    I don’t go to dance socials on the hunt for a girlfiend. Maybe it's just me, but I find it way more fun when my only goal is to dance and enjoy the music, not scan the room like I’m Too hot to handle: Salsa Edition. Don’t get me wrong, beautiful women absolutely exist at these events, and yes...
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    Really smooth salsa dancers

    https://www.facebook.com/reel/2041688266329106
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    Asking someone to go out dancing with you

    I had a girl wanted to share a room with me. I didn't want to share it with anybody just because there were two beds in the room. I want to be all by myself. :(
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    Review of NYC Mambo (Eddie Torres Jr's online school)

    That was completely expected if you tried to learn 50 lessons at the same time.
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    Asking someone to go out dancing with you

    Hey, I was thinking of going out dancing this weekend. Would you want to join me? It’d be fun to have someone to dance with!
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    Those who have a dance partner, how did you approach it?

    Take her out to dinner, ask her about her life, spend time together, and surprise her with flowers. Share a moment of intimacy, then ask her: "Would you be my dance partner?" If not, I might need to find someone else. It works. I am speaking with experience. Wait, you meant approach the dance...
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    Bachata teachers without enough training

    Was Deion talking about himself?
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    How to politely decline a dance?

    Thank you very much for your kind invitation to dance. I truly appreciate your offer and the thoughtfulness behind it. Unfortunately, due to some unforeseen circumstances, I must regretfully decline on this occasion. However, I would love to take a rain check and hope we can dance together...
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    Being the “Pity Dance”

    Sir, your Porsche 911 GT3 RS is being towed outside of the club. :cool:
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    I'm flipped

    Most of the sensual bachata dancers don't have Dominican bachata training which teaches you to hold the frame and lean back in a close positon. The close position is not really close in Dominican bachata dancing. But of course, BS is more prone to chest to chest.
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    Origin of Sensual Bachata

    You guys were all wrong. Sensual Bachata was developed by me and my partner at the time 25 years ago. We both were lying on bed and too comfy to get out. But we both wanted to dance. Then the sensual bachata was born. It's been years since I've heard from her. Rumor says she went to the...
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    Is Kizomba just dry humping?

    It’s absolutely true. Even in America. I have many black followers told me that they very much appreciate I ask them for dances. Their black leads don’t ask them to dance. It’s like those black leads don’t like their own race, they are chasing white b****. Those black ladies are good dancers...
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    Getting pretty sick & tired of obviously advanced dancers attending beginner classes..

    Oh well, what's your intention to dance? Get good at dancing, or get girls? I don't take beginner's lesson, because I am tired of girls drooling all over me. :headphone:
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    What's the proper response to: "Oh I'm not a pro or good dancer like you!"

    it really depends on your dance scene. How big is the community? In my city, I can dance with different people every night. My no more than 3 songs policy has three reasons: 1. Unless I have a relationship with her, I find it is hard to make the dance creative after 3 songs. It became a...
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    What's the proper response to: "Oh I'm not a pro or good dancer like you!"

    I don’t dance with the same person for more than 3 songs unless there is a special relationship between us. In such case people will observe it and not wait for the next dance.
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