Relating back to the original post, the problem with where It has gone has got to be front and center with the djs. Other than Frankie Martinez playing good amounts of cha cha no one else does. And that's including the best socials in Ny, Jimmy antons, and lvg. I remember a few years ago getting tired of always having to sit out cha chas at these socials and it forced me to go home and work on my cha cha game. End of story, nowadays all you have to do is avoid frankies social and ergo no more having to challenge yourself to dance cha cha. So that's shame on NY djs, here is looking at you Jimmy anton and Antonio LA conga. Step your game back up. And force the dancers to step their game up. And for goodness when there are so many sublime cha chas out there, when you do play a song don't make it he weakest cha cha out there, because that reinforces subconsciously that you don't really want to play cha cha. Now to the other part of this that everyone seemed to really address, cha cha asks for a lot of trust, trust in yourself mostly, because you can't just bulldoze through a cha cha. It forces you to listen and interact with the music and your partner.. At a slower speed than you are used to.... It forces you to challenge yourself and to STEP your game up... And as a slight plug for dancers from Frankie Martinez, his dancers are comfortable in space in their own skins and generally have a ability to move that's not dependent on overt styling or turn patterns.. They aren't lost when they have to actually dance, which is what a cha cha forces you to do, no hiding behind continuous never ending turn patterns... No hiding behind never letting your partner go... So DJ's play more cha cha. dancers, dance them when they come on, if you don't feel ready, then find or demand a class or get in the studio or living room and play the heck out of some cha cha and live it and breathe it so that when you are out and a cha cha comes on, you ask a partner and our get down and funky and groovy.....