Different strokes for different folks should be the title of this thread
People dance for all kinds of different reasons - some dance to get better, some dance to only have fun, some dance to meet a romantic interest, some dance because they want it to be their career, some dance because they are addicted and can't live with out it and some dance as an escape to a mundane life. With all of these differing reasons to dance it would be hard to create a right and a wrong way to dance. I'll give some examples to help illustrate my point.
Take my parents for example, they have never danced before and are very busy. I have shown them the basic step and some patterns and every time I go home to visit I show them a new pattern and we go out dancing together. This is something they do very casually - and to be honest - they suck. No rhythm, no timing - my father can't lead and my mother can't follow. But you know what - it doesn't matter. They are having fun - and we go out as a family (I also invite my siblings) and enjoy eachother's company.
Another example - a friend of mine named Sophia only goes out dancing once a month or so and has been dancing since she was a kid at weddings and other celebrations. She likes to go out and have a beer and sit around and talk and dance the ocasional song. I have a hard time dancing with her because I generally do not lead strong - I try and keep a very slight lead and let the lady make her own movements. But she still dances and has fun and has no intention of getting - she doesn't need to - she dances the way she wants and doesn't see the need to change.
Another example - a friend name Ricardo - he would really like to make teaching salsa his career. He is working extremely hard at getting better - improving everything. Over the last three years he has improved tremendously. Its his main passion in life. He goes to congresses - he social dances four nights a week, he teaches classes, he takes private lessons where he goes and so on and so forth.
Then there is me - when I first started dancing I had the intention of learning enough so that I could go on a cruise and go dancing. I had five months to learn - so I learned the basics and some patterns and didn't really focus on timing or styling - I just wanted to be able to move on the dance floor. However, I fell in love with the dance and started taking lessons - focused on timing and every other aspect of the dance, and then about four years later I got a little burned out - I had to take a break, and now I am just going out dancing - not focusing on improving - just enjoying the scene.
With all of these examples - I hope that I illustrate that there are many different types of dancers on the dance floor - and people should be allowed to dance however they went for whatever reason. Could you really say that any one of these people are wrong or bad for dancing the way they do? Who is to be the judge? As long as they are having fun and not hurting anyone - well then let them be. If you can pick out an example and demonstrate why that person is wrong or bad then please do - I would love to hear the explanation.
yes, its different from the way that you dance - and h*ll, maybe its even different from the way the dance was intended to be danced. Why should the people that created this danced be allowed to dictate how everyone should dance. The creators of salsa were innovators - they took other dances and distorted them in such a way as to change the dances as they were originally intended to dance :shock: so I can't imagine that the creators of salsa had the intention of creating a one size fits all dance that can only be danced the way that they danced. And even if they did - who cares what they intended at the time. The fact of the matter is that salsa is for everyone! For everyone who chooses to dance it!! There really shouldn't be a right way or a wrong way to dance. If you are enjoying yourself - then its all good. (On a side note - I am not talking about floor craft - people shouldn't ignore the other people around them and put people in danger of being hit - thats another topic).
Also - look at who makes up the salsa community. How many people take lessons and how many people stay with salsa for more than one year. Each community is different so I can only speak for the scenes that I am intimately familiar with - Seattle, PHoenix and Portland - in all three of the scenes the story is the same. Lots of people take lessons - some people will go out and dance - however, a few will continue to dance after one year. If the majority of the dancers never make it past four or five months then what is the point of teaching them al of the finer details of the dance - the details that many of us thrive upon - like for instance timing - why should they know these things? By the time they figure it out they will leave the salsa world and move on to something else. Let them enjoy the dance however they want while they are here.
As far as timing and rhythm goes - the way that that I was taught requires me to be on time and to really listen ad follow the rhytm and feel it. This is how I like to dance and I wouldn't want to dance salsa any other way. However, some people don't need to have timing or rhthm in order to enjoy the dance. Woudl they enjoy it more if they were to learn timing and rhtyhm and how to feel the dance? Probably. But for some its not worth the investment in time - they enjoy dancing the way that they do - and don't see a need to change.
Again - I'll get off my soap box with one more sentence - different strokes for different folks.