I am generally of the opinion that people that devote more time to any hobby usually are more "enlightened", be it sports, salsa, music, wine, hiking or whatever. We could have a philosophical debate about what enlightened means if you like, but prob not the right thread.And ever dawned to you, that you may be the exception, not the norm?
You live in a filter bubble. All your dancer friends are selected for liking that style. You are the enlightened ones and those being more into pop music are inferiors - and yes, you sound that way.
For the record, these "enlightened" dancer friends of mine (with the closest one being a huge romantica fan!) coincidentally also happen to represent some of the most popular DJs, even among the plebes.
And yes, I'm very aware that many people like salsa romantica or Justin Beiber since, you know, I have eyes and the ability to read top 20 charts.