UnlikelySalsero
Changui
noobster said:<snip>
I think it also helps to be a follower. We have so much less to think about. I basically turn my brain off when I dance, whereas the guy has a zillion other things to worry about: planning the next move, leading it on time, watching for other couples, executing his own footwork, making sure he is not overstretching, manhandling, confusing or boring the follower, etc etc etc. Musicality is really important to a good dance but it still comes *after* staying on beat, connecting/smiling, and not crashing me into other people <snip>
I actually do not understand why the guy ends up having so much of the responsibility for the musicality of the dance. Since he's got so much else to think about, it would seem reasonable for him to just ramp down the patterns and let the follower have time to do her own thing. Unfortunately some leaders seem to fear the dance will be boring if they don't fill every second with a new pattern, when nothing could be farther from the truth.
It actually works both ways... If I understands the music I can do fewer patterns, and if I catch the breaks, I can put my follower in a position to dance and show off if she is a better dancer than me.
Leads are responsible because we pick the patterns and set the tone for the dance. If a slow romantic tune starts and I put in triple spins and complex moves, my follow will do those moves (assuming she has the technique to handle my lead).
If I'm tuned to the music, I will do less when the music is simplier, let my partner dance more and ramp up the moves over the course of the song, reflecting the mood of the music. Also, music repeats at logical points, so if I understand that I might be doing variations of the same move when it matches the music. (Musicians repeat stuff all the time... most songs state a theme and then repeat it with variations a few times...)
In many cases, if the musicality is earlier for the guys, it actually reduces their needs for more and more patterns because some parts of the music don't call for intense moves.
I consider keeping the time part of the musicality. I suspect most guys would be better served understanding the music sooner rather than later, but there are many paths to becoming a strong lead.