Not just Western culture, worldwide culture, and in many non-Western cultures it's much more than what is referred to as "sexism" in the West, it is plain old patriarchal control of women's lives and deaths. So when thinking of something like this for example which is considered normal in some parts of the world (the man who did this faced no punishment for what he did), "Western sexism" such as in salsa music becomes "mild" by comparison:
http://www.ibtimes.com/yemeni-child...internal-injuries-after-wedding-night-1404210
Here is what life (and death) is like for many, many women *right now, in the 21st century*:
http://www.meforum.org/2646/worldwide-trends-in-honor-killings
It's probably a reason why I never cared about learning the lyrics of salsa songs (I speak Spanish) even though I love the music, whereas (as @
groovetpt has often said) Latin Americans love singing along to salsa songs and know all the lyrics. I've also noticed I seem to have trained myself to ignore the lyrics--for example when non-Spanish speaking friends ask me what a certain song that is playing is about, I usually realize that "I don't know, I wasn't listening to the lyrics"--pretty striking, given how much I enjoy the music. For example one of my favorite songs is "Lloraras"--and when it's playing I sometimes find myself singing along just because I like the music so much, but after singing along "lloraras y lloraras" a couple of times I tend to start feeling a sort of innate repulsion towards the lyrics (even though, as I said above, I seem to subconsciously try to ignore the meaning) and I go back to focusing on the music and ignoring the lyrics.
Here are the lyrics of "Lloraras" -- a great example of the "The deceptive, transgressing ***** who wrongfully broke the protagonist’s heart" type of song mentioned above.
Sé que tu no quieres,
que yo a ti te quiera
siempre tu me esquivas
de alguna manera
si te busco por aquí
me sales por allá
lo único que yo quiero
es que no me hagas sufrir más
Por tu mal comportamiento,
te vas a arrepentir
muy caro tendrás que pagar
todo mi sufrimiemto
Llorarás y llorarás
sin nadie que te consuele
y así te darás de cuenta
que si te engañan duele
Y después vendrás a mí,
pidiéndome perdón
pero ya mi corazón,
no se acuerda más de tí
Llorarás y llorarás
sin nadie que te consuele
y así te darás de cuenta
que si te engañan duele
CORO: Llorarás, lloraras, llorarás.
Como lo sufrí yo
Nadie te comprendera
Todo lo mala que has sido
Mamita, tú lo pagaras.
Mi vida voy a vivir
Mi vida como yo quiero
Echa' pa elante, yo me voy