Why are some great dancers chronically single?

I remember one night asking an instructor where he was the night before. He said he was at a top 40 club. I said I never go there, he said I shouldn't as it is too much of a meat market. Tells you what he was out for ;)
 
I am also introverted in the truest sense of the word. I socialize when Im in the mood but usually I have a one track mind, to catch the next great salsa dance. If you're having a good night you're not doing alot of talking unless the venue is more socially focused.
 
wonderwoman said:
I remember one night asking an instructor where he was the night before. He said he was at a top 40 club. I said I never go there, he said I shouldn't as it is too much of a meat market. Tells you what he was out for ;)
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There is a small possibility that he just wanted to dance to current popular music rather than salsa
 
I don't necessarily want to date someone I have a good dance connection with, but it does work the other way around for me.
If I notice no physical connection during dancing, no matter how beautiful she looks, I won't find her that attractive anymore ;x Srry.
 
Kading said:
I don't necessarily want to date someone I have a good dance connection with, but it does work the other way around for me.
If I notice no physical connection during dancing, no matter how beautiful she looks, I won't find her that attractive anymore ;x Srry.
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Do you find it works the other way round? If I fancy someone it does add something to our dancing.
 
A little off the wall, but I just heard a rumor that a fellow in my salsa scene (and he is a strong dancer) is engaged to Frankie Martinez' sister (but that she's not a dancer).
 
Why would you want to riun a good thing.? I dont know how jaded I am, but I dont get turned on when I dance bachata or kizomba, even if the guy is hot. I preffer being committed to dancing, than a person.
 
Tina said:
Why would you want to riun a good thing.? I dont know how jaded I am, but I dont get turned on when I dance bachata or kizomba, even if the guy is hot. I preffer being committed to dancing, than a person.
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Perhaps you are thinking of a more meaningfull connection? I'm talking about having a small spark of sexual chemistry and flirting a little, not taking someone home.
 
MMaatttt said:
Perhaps you are thinking of a more meaningfull connection? I'm talking about having a small spark of sexual chemistry and flirting a little, not taking someone home.
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Isn't this a new thread ? :) Things have been dull around the SF lately :D

I don't think we ever had a thread dedicated to sexual chemistry and tension with a particular partner when dancing.
 
DJ Ara said:
If you meet too many such ladies, then perhaps you can suggest to them that they go to a salsa night for gays. That way they can dance their little hearts out in sexy manner all night without any worry.

Of course, most of them will not take your suggestion, because at the back (if not the the front) of their minds they are still "looking" for a (long/short term) relationship-just like all healthy minded single people! ;)
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So True!
My thoughts exactly. This is true of most humans, in most social circles of any social activity, to meet different people, and maybe just in case meet someone" for some type of relationship, given that they might share similar interests.....
 
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