Sleazy Sexy moves which u like/hate-both for leaders and followers

[Roo]

chicken fillets, great escapes...........................ummm, I have got nothing lol

I think I can get in the running... though why I want to share an embarrassing story on a public forum is beyond me...

I went dancing wearing a super-low cut shirt that I use body tape (how I love body tape!) to tape to my skin to secure in place. I danced that evening with a Cuban guy that I'd just met, who wonder of wonders -- likes to dance close & flirt. Since I think both of those things are fine as long as it's respectful & everyone know 'the score', that was fine. We danced a few songs throughout the eve & then danced a merengue, I think, so there was lots of side to side motion going on, real close... Meanwhile, he's giving me deep looks, flirting pretty hard, etc. We broke apart for a second and he reached down to my breast... (!)... I started to slap his hand away only to discover that my boob was hanging out of my shirt (only visible to both of us, I think/hope, b/c we were still pretty close, & covered by a pastie, but still!) and he was almost clinically pulling my shirt back to cover me up, immediately switching away from any flirt energy as though he were suddenly my doctor! He then, of course, proceeded to declare that he was a respectful guy, since he recognized & was appalled at what I had mistook it for...

Somehow I don't wear that shirt often anymore... And when I do wear things that have/need body tape reinforcement, I take friction into account!

 

[lyndwode]

Actually this is inspired from earlier thread by another poster;

ex
What about the move where they go behind you, grab you round the waist, force your head down and proceed to pretend to have their wicked way with you like something from National Geographic?

List down all the moves which the leaders do and the followers hate/like and vice versa
would be interesting

Maybe I told that story??? Isn't it like an old school move, from the 90's, Like when Johnny Vasquez was just starting to dance? Didn't all the women throw their hair and bend over when pulled at the hips? I can remember dancing with several girls (not in the 90's, but ladies that had been dancing for a while) that must have known this move quite well (or thought they knew what I wanted ) because they just bent over by themselves. hihii

I was "traumatized", well, surprised to say the least, when a girl asked me to dance bachata, and proceded to pull up against me, and basically grind up against my knee...this was the stuff I could only dream of when I used to go to regular clubs and dance alone all night! she did not like it when I led any spins during bachata She had a sort of orgasmic look on her face when I sent her in a deep dip - OK I played along but I was still surprised at her intimacy, we hadn't even danced a salsa before...Maybe she was looking for her "chico de la noche", who knows.

 

[sac]

any more moves????? this is interesting

 

[lyndwode]

any more moves????? this is interesting

hahah, as if it was just for me to post here, last night I saw something funny:

in a class, the teacher showed a move in cuban style where the girl spins in and then sits briefly on the leaders lap. One of the guys just held the girl there for a while and was holding bother her hands firmly, she couldn't get away!

Ps. we nicknamed the first move described in this thread the "rape" move (Vergewaltigungsfigur in german ) the girls love it round here hihihhi, not!

 

[vancouverguy]

You know.....

Maybe I told that story??? Isn't it like an old school move, from the 90's, Like when Johnny Vasquez was just starting to dance? Didn't all the women throw their hair and bend over when pulled at the hips? I can remember dancing with several girls (not in the 90's, but ladies that had been dancing for a while) that must have known this move quite well (or thought they knew what I wanted ) because they just bent over by themselves. hihii

I was "traumatized", well, surprised to say the least, when a girl asked me to dance bachata, and proceded to pull up against me, and basically grind up against my knee...this was the stuff I could only dream of when I used to go to regular clubs and dance alone all night! she did not like it when I led any spins during bachata She had a sort of orgasmic look on her face when I sent her in a deep dip - OK I played along but I was still surprised at her intimacy, we hadn't even danced a salsa before...Maybe she was looking for her "chico de la noche", who knows.

You know it was a good Bachata when you want a cigarette afterward!
You know it was a good Bachata when she wants to talk about the relationship afterward!
You know it was a good Bachata when he goes to sleep immediately afterward!
You know it was a good Bachata when it lasts more than 2 minutes!

Etc.....Etc

 

[antigone]

you know those guys (usually drunks) who want to dance too close in a closed-hold? i rest my hand on the ball of their shoulder, and rest my thumb just above their collarbone. if they start to close-in, i simply stiffen my thumb. then if they move forward it hurts them. if they stay at a polite distance, no pain...
...

adding that to my mental list of ways to hurt men...though I prefer a well-worded criticism to physical means - the bruises on the ego last longer

 

[smiling28]

I think I can get in the running... though why I want to share an embarrassing story on a public forum is beyond me...

I went dancing wearing a super-low cut shirt that I use body tape (how I love body tape!) to tape to my skin to secure in place. I danced that evening with a Cuban guy that I'd just met, who wonder of wonders -- likes to dance close & flirt. Since I think both of those things are fine as long as it's respectful & everyone know 'the score', that was fine. We danced a few songs throughout the eve & then danced a merengue, I think, so there was lots of side to side motion going on, real close... Meanwhile, he's giving me deep looks, flirting pretty hard, etc. We broke apart for a second and he reached down to my breast... (!)... I started to slap his hand away only to discover that my boob was hanging out of my shirt (only visible to both of us, I think/hope, b/c we were still pretty close, & covered by a pastie, but still!) and he was almost clinically pulling my shirt back to cover me up, immediately switching away from any flirt energy as though he were suddenly my doctor! He then, of course, proceeded to declare that he was a respectful guy, since he recognized & was appalled at what I had mistook it for...

Somehow I don't wear that shirt often anymore... And when I do wear things that have/need body tape reinforcement, I take friction into account!

LOL - oh my god, Janet Jackson posts on salsa forums.....


OK bad joke but sounds like you had a lucky escape (pardon the pun).

Someone told me a similar story as a guy and they just hugged the girl off the dance floor and into the changerooms