Welcome to the forums nowhiteshoes
I’ve just begun to find my feet (if you’ll excuse the expression) with shines and stuff. A lot of it is confidence but the other side is that most ladies who like to shine will be better at it than you. They will have taken styling classes and I’ve found that when instructors teach weird and wonderful footwork it is often directed at followers.
With this in mind I generally accept that what I’m doing is pretty immaterial – if people are watching, they will be looking at her rather than me – I believe this is the philosophy behind shines.
Anyway, as ever Mac and Sweavo give excellent advice, but here are my tips.
Don’t be afraid of repetition.
It doesn’t have to be complicated – 9 times out of 10 if I go in to a simple rhumba step, the lady copies me almost immediately. Another simple thing to do is just swap places, by circling around your partner – if you circle using the forward slide it looks pretty cool.
Maintain eye contact and make sure you’re appreciative of her efforts – my mouth hit the floor the first time a lady threw an ultra slow 8 beat body roll at me :shock: the masochist in me likes it when my partner makes me feel like a beginner.
Try to feel and represent the music – easier said than done, but don’t worry about marking beats with steps, use your arms, hips, head, go with the flow.
As others have said practice by just grooving to some tunes at home – try and escape the shackles of ordinary footwork patterns and project how you feel. There are no mistakes when you shine.
My problem is the opposite I like to break hold, but lots of my regular partners don’t
