Flex said:
DeeplyDippy said:
...... show dance by Vincent and Flavia
Ah, but wasn't their show Viennese Waltz terrific?
I've never done the VW and always hated it as a spectacle, a boring dance. The everlovin' who spent a few years in Vienna, loves it of course.
A while back towards the end of a salsa evening a song was played (no idea what) and along with many others I got up to dance, but for the life of me all I could do was struggle to find the beat. Or rather I could find it, but what I was hearing was the rapid 1-2-3 1-2-3 1-2-3 1-2-3 of the Viennese waltz, so I gave up trying to dance salsa with a beat missing and when I next got my partner into hold, whisked her off around the room. That was cool, especially when I noticed others had stopped dancing in the centre of the room to watch. (Not, I'm happy to say because we were stopping them struggling with their salsa.)
I do some ballroom as well as salsa (indeed started ballroom before salsa), and have to say salsa has helped me understand the need to - and how to - lead ballroom in a social dancing situation. The ballroom classes I've done have always been boys behind girls in front, teach the boys their bit, teach the girls their bit, do it over and over, and only then is the group allowed to try it as a couple. A lot of this is down to very specific technique and footwork, especially for the women, in the ballroom dances in particular, but it is at the expense of the men knowing how to lead, and the women how to follow. There's also a much, much stronger fixed partnership culture in ballroom, which means that it's less important for the man to know how to lead, as they both know their "pattern" and the woman can always back-lead. And it drives me mad!

The crazy thing is I can have a much more enjoyable waltz with salseras who know the basics of waltz, than I can with the person I've been doing ballroom classes with for six years!
The main difficulty is that when you're ballroom dancing, you can't do the patterns you've been taught, at least not in the order you've been taught, because either you can't remember the whole complex pattern or there's somebody in the way: and that's where the follower needs to be able to follow and the leader to lead. Similarly, because ballroom dances are progressive dances, danced around the room - which is one of the most significant differences to my mind from salsa - you're constantly having to dodge all the other dancers - again it needs a good follower, but the leader has to be good too (better than I am most of the time, I think) to navigate a route round the ballroom as well as choreographing the dance, hopefully to the music! It's a joy to watch really proficient social dancers weave their way elegantly around a packed ballroom.
If your partner is your beloved and you go out dancing a lot, then you pick up these techniques. If, like me, you only dance with your regular partner in classes and otherwise very occasionally as she has husband, family, and most bizarrely a life outside dancing :roll: she never gets used to the leader's techniques for navigation and improvisation.
Salseras on the other hand just follow whatever the leader does.
When I do get a good partner and can let the music just take over, a waltz or a slow foxtrot can be utterly dreamy. Quickstep can be great fun, but a good one is like a 400 yard sprint and can make fast salsa seem very sedate. The ballroom tango is an abomination and I hate it.
