lol. it's
MUCH less painful to lead someone bad, than be lead by them.....TRUST ME!



physically and psychologically, lol.
if the follower's a bit pants, then i mainly do x-body lead, single turn and variations thereof....maybe a lot of shines too...

my personal bugbear is
heavy followers...if i'm asking a strange woman to dance, i usually ask the fattest in the room. most bigger girls (i include myself) are so paranoid about being heavy, that they're sometimes the lightest followers...
but if you're following, and the leader's a bit pants, then sometimes it's say goodbye to all timing, space to express the music and bloodflow to your limbs...

usually, the worse the lead is, the more he'll "insist" you follow him....so if he's dancing on 'the beat of a different drum' and you try to stay on 1, or 3 or whatever's closest to something he's doing, he'll use his body to force you to follow his 'rhythm', keeping tight, stiff, hold of your arms at all times.
so that leaves your head, hips and feet to dance to the music with...except that if you do any embroidery on a basic step with your feet, he'll stop dead in confusion. if you wiggle your hips, he'll become attached to you by the long line of drool passing from the corner of his mouth to your (previously clean) hair. and there's only so many head rolls a girl can do to a basic step, before the men in white with the giant nets come...
apropos of....?
....erm, something. i
think...
