Most of my own path has been very incremental, no "big breakthrough". Particularly my appreciation of salsa music has just been "hey I like this song, I'll ask the person playing it - teacher/DJ/whoever - what it is so I can listen. And before I realized it I found myself listening again and again to some songs to try and grasp details in them, watching videos, reading about music ...
I do have a few "big steps" though I guess...
- 1st class
- 1st "real leading" :teacher asked the guys to choose between the four moves we were learning in rotation. It was great!
- 1st "real dance" at the end of class. Messed it up: I froze as I had no inspiration and couldn't what to do next after three basic steps...
- 1st time out in a club with some pals from class
- 1st time invited someone I didn't know ...
At the time I was still in a school that didn't really teach good technique. Their marketing was excellent... It was more a "money factory" than anything else, with packed classes, teachers who didn't social dance much at all, ...
There were four levels, from 1 to 4. When I was pushed up from level2 to level3, the stuff we went on to couldn't possibly be done with the weak basic we had from level 1/2. This was when I realized how crappy this school was (I had no previous reference so I couldn't know ...)
I then proceeded to try out a dozen schools, until I found two of them with some interesting stuff, and enrolled into a few classes:
- musicality, with an actual salsa musician who had played and lived in many countries including NY, PR. He would show us some ways to listen to the music, with them basic examples and stuff, how to listen to the different parts, instruments, ... it was great
- basics class not for beginners. it was a supervised social dancing class with feedback. The teacher would give us exercises such as "dance only in closed hold", "only right to right", "only left to left", "only lead on the body, now on arms/hands", "girls, add some shines in the middle of the moves without disrupting lead" and so on, then run a song, watched us all. Lead/follows would make comments and teacher too. It could be "nice" stuff such as "off time", a bit less "rough lead", "follower backleading" go as far as "you're boring". The whole goal was to make a fun dance. It was the best class ever
At this point I had only learned cuban style salsa.
Then one day at a club, I saw a guy dancing differently. He was small, fat, ugly, yet he looked so awesome! I commented on him to my friends, and they told me he was dancing linear style.
Damn, I gotta learn that!!
So from there I practically dropped cuban, and started back from practically nothing (except knowing basic leading technique and on1 timing) into linear salsa. It was tough. In Paris, the linear scene is nothing like the cuban scene. Linear salsa is somehow considered like the "elite" scene, and there are quite a few show offs. But I loved the music and the dance so I plowed through. I found the only linear salsa night where there were beginners, as all the other beginner level places were cuban.
It was a huge modern jive social, with four rooms: jive, WCS, ballroom, and ... salsa/bachata. Because the dancers were already dancing linear, they naturally chose linear salsa, so I could practice my stuff there without boring anyone to death. I went there every Friday night for a few months, and I was starting to get comfortable with linear salsa.
At one point, I don't know exactly when, everything clicked. I was about 1 year in cuban + 6 months into linear.
From that day on I started going to other nights ...
Next milestone was my visit to London. I stayed at olamalam's place for a few days. It was awesome, I loved it. He introduced me to on2.
I guess there have been no big steps since, it's all been very incremental. I took some on2 lessons in Paris, started dancing on2 in socials, then spent another week in London where I danced a lot on2, and moved to Sydney... Now I happily dance all styles depending on who it's with and the music. My favourite is probably NY now, but I still like all of them.
I take "advanced" classes but I still feel like no more than intermediate. It may seem negative, and really I am enjoying the journey, but while my leading is all right (get compliments every time I go out), my body movement and footwork are still average at best. I still work a lot on every aspect including leading.
I'm guessing that the best thing would be performance classes, as I don't really need moves and stuff, but I really don't want to perform, it's not my thing...
For now I'm a bit poor so not taking lessons until May ...