Both me and my girlfriend both dance salsa at same classes and clubs. I recently asked her that when we go out to a club I'd like the first dance. Her reply was that its social dancing and if someone else asks her first she cant refuse. Is it really such a big deal if she says,"sorry I'm dancing with my bf first"...I think its respectful of me to dance with her first as much as it should be for her to want to give me the first dance as well as the last dance of the night\dance. I think so many people are used to being single at these dances they forget about niceties.. Small but thoughtful. What does everyone think???? Am I really wrong??? We dont cease to be a couple just because we're at a class/dance ?