n00bdancer
Changui
I went to a social last weekend I think I danced with about 30 women.
There was one dance where I found the follower kind of hard to lead like it felt like when I was leading her I was pushing against a resistance band.
Now, usually I just default to assuming it’s my fault like I might be not as giving as clear of a lead or the follower is just being careful for her safety.
But the thing is, she was the ONLY follower of the weekend where I felt this tension throughout the dance. All other followers felt pretty light while leading.
The reason I’m not sure what’s the issue because I don’t experience this often but there are definitely followers who offer this type of resistance.
What could be the problem?
There was one dance where I found the follower kind of hard to lead like it felt like when I was leading her I was pushing against a resistance band.
Now, usually I just default to assuming it’s my fault like I might be not as giving as clear of a lead or the follower is just being careful for her safety.
But the thing is, she was the ONLY follower of the weekend where I felt this tension throughout the dance. All other followers felt pretty light while leading.
The reason I’m not sure what’s the issue because I don’t experience this often but there are definitely followers who offer this type of resistance.
What could be the problem?