Ok, here's a slightly fresh take on a half-beaten-to-death topic... A few nights ago, I chatted with two salsera friends of mine, (one online, one in person) and during both conversations, we ended up talking about relationships in the salsa scene. My friend online is dealing w/ a boyfriend who doesn't dance and has a hard time accepting her passion for it. My friend who I talked and danced with later on has a boyfriend who dances as well. After thinking about both conversations, I thought about posting a thread to see what does and does not work in salsa relationships of both kinds: relationships w/ one dancer and one non-dancer, and relationships where both members are dancers. I have my own ideas about what would or wouldn't work; however, I've been single since before I was a salsero (just over 6 years), so my opinions, though they're based on what I've seen from other's relationships, may or may not hold much water due to my absence of salsa-dating experience. So, my questions to everyone who has been in a relationship since you’ve been dancing (whether you’re in a relationship w/ a dancer or a non-dancer): 1) If your relationship worked or is working, what made it successful in respect to dancing? 2) If your relationship didn’t or isn’t working, what went wrong (if indeed salsa was a cause of the breakup)?