I thought this one deserves a thread of its own, rather than go to blacklist thread. Between the extremes of whitelisted and blacklisted are those who cause you to hide or run but you can't avoid There are a couple of girls I know on the scene, who have been dancing for more than a year. Leading them is like driving a truck with a blown tire. Good nature salseras but heavy to dance with, can't follow a simple lead to save their life (CBL or basic turn), can't maintain their own balance, etc. One of them takes the classes (and gets corrected, but instructor can do only so much) but doesn't social dance regularly. Other one I don't think takes classes but social dances regularly. Dancing with them is a wrestling match you just can't win, no matter how much you try to accommodate them.